Are you wondering how to create a good relationship between your baby and your dog? The arrival of a new baby is one of life’s most beautiful shifts and changes the dynamic of our households. With all of that, our “first babies” with four legs and wet noses might feel a little left out of the loop! As a Virginia Beach newborn photographer, I’ve walked into so many homes where the family dog is just as much a part of the welcoming committee as the grandparents.
Helping your pup transition from being the center of your world to sharing it with a tiny human is all about heart, patience, and a little bit of prep work. Here is how I recommend creating a good relationship between your baby and your dog.
Get Your Pup Used To Baby’s Scent
Long before you pull into the driveway with your newborn, your dog is going to sense that something is changing. One of my favorite “pro tips” for my clients is to send a worn baby swaddle or a little hat home from the hospital before you actually arrive.
Let your pup sniff the item in a calm environment. Don’t force it. Instead, just let them get curious on their own terms. Associating that new “sweet baby” smell with a peaceful home environment helps bridge the gap before the physical introduction even happens.
Practice the “New Normal” Now
One of the easiest ways to create a good relationship between your baby and your dog is to start now, while you’re still pregnant. Dogs thrive on routine, and we all know that a newborn’s schedule is… well, non-existent! Start tweaking your dog’s walk times or feeding windows a few weeks before your due date. If you plan to use baby gates or keep the nursery off-limits, set those boundaries now.
It’s also a great idea to practice walking with an empty stroller around your neighborhood. You might feel a little silly, but it helps your dog learn how to navigate alongside those wheels without the added pressure of a sleeping infant inside. Plus, it’s great exercise for you, too!
The First Greeting
When you finally walk through that front door, try to greet your dog solo first. They’ve missed you! Let them get those happy wiggles out with you while someone else holds the baby. Once the initial excitement has settled, you can introduce them in a quiet, low-pressure way.
During our lifestyle newborn sessions, I love capturing the quiet curiosity of a dog resting their head near the bassinet. These are the moments that truly show the bond starting to form. We never force a “posed” dog-and-baby shot; instead, we let your pet move at their own pace, rewarding them with treats and praise for their gentle curiosity.
Keep the Love Flowing
It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the “baby bubble,” but even five minutes of dedicated belly rubs or a quick game of fetch can make your dog feel secure. When they see that the baby’s presence means more love (and maybe a few extra treats!), they’ll start to view the new arrival as a win for them, too.
Are you looking to capture the beautiful chaos of your growing family (pups included!)? I’d love to chat about your upcoming newborn session and how we can include every member of your pack!
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